How to choose the right family lawyer for you?

Amity Xu*

When dealing with legal issues, it is always important to work with a lawyer to ensure you are properly informed, supported, and represented. Family law is no exception, but picking the right lawyer can be difficult. There are a multitude of factors to consider, so today, we will discuss how to find the right lawyer for you.

Research

Though seemingly a tedious process, research is vital when finding a good lawyer. You may want to ask friends or family for recommendations if they have experienced similar issues, but even then, you should conduct your own first-hand research. Consider the following:

  • Experience: With your rights, and in some cases, your intimate relationships at stake, you will want a lawyer with many years of family law experience.
  • Reputation: A good lawyer should naturally have a good reputation among clients. You could look into their testimonials to get a better understanding of their capabilities and character.
  • Track record: Having a lawyer who has been successful in many cases can offer you more peace of mind. This is also an indication that they are competent and qualified to handle your case.
  • Your specific circumstances: The circumstances in family law can vary wildly. For instance, in cases involving parenting, you will often want someone with a more child-focused approach. You may also want to avoid overly aggressive lawyers. Tailor your search to your preferences and the type of services you seek.

Initial Consultation

Once you have decided on a potential lawyer, you will want to speak with them in person, by phone, or through a video conference. Even if you decide to meet, you do not necessarily have to retain this lawyer; the consultation is yet another step in deciding if they are right for you.

Make sure you prepare specific questions about your case and how to protect your legal rights. It is vital that you get an honest assessment about your situation as soon as possible from an experienced family lawyer. This is also an opportunity to gauge how you feel about them. You want someone who is professional, fully understands your situation, has effective communication skills, and who you feel you can trust. If you are still unsure, you may also want to directly ask the lawyer about their experience and capabilities.

Fee Consideration

It is also good to ask about costs from the outset. The more experienced and reputable lawyers typically have higher hourly rates or flat fees. Ensure that you can afford their services before proceeding.

Depending on the dispute, family law cases can take months or years to resolve, which is why it is so vital that you pick a lawyer you can get along with, and who approaches the case with the attitude you are looking for. You want somebody you can speak with openly and candidly, not somebody you selected haphazardly. Finding the right lawyer will help you achieve the most optimal outcome for your case.

* Amity Xu is a co-op student at Jeff Li’s Law Office.